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So this afternoon I found via Facebook status updates of multiple people I know that somebody I knew from college (he was good friends with the people I hung out with and went there for a year before transferring out) got killed serving over in Afghanistan.

I hate finding out bad news that way, seeing a sad, serious message buried amongst all the bullshit. Feels like a punch in the stomach....

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11-12-2010 02:44 PM
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Thats how I found out I might have AIDS....

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11-12-2010 02:46 PM
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corey jo will make a wall post about you aving aids on your page
11-12-2010 02:49 PM
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She already did.

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11-12-2010 02:51 PM
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11-12-2010 02:53 PM
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Who do you think gave it to him? Thank god that KBC is now a "Whorey Ho" (as I call Corey Jo) free zone.

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11-12-2010 02:57 PM
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(11-12-2010 02:57 PM)JohnnyLav Wrote:  Who do you think gave it to him? Thank god that KBC is now a "Whorey Ho" (as I call Corey Jo) free zone.

She said, remember all those times you asked her not to tell anyone that you were sending her private messages?

You and Ivan should learn how to handle internet-rejection a little better. I'm sure there's a cyber-support group somewhere.

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11-12-2010 03:08 PM
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Delete your Facebook, problem solved.

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11-12-2010 03:09 PM
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A couple of years ago, I learned that one of my friends died through an AIM away message.

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11-12-2010 03:15 PM
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lol @ me getting rejected
11-12-2010 03:19 PM
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Meh, the p.m. was about a local band I thought she'd dig since we have similar tastes in music, NOTHING more.

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11-12-2010 03:29 PM
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Yea, I highly doubt Justafriend would be sending her many, if any, PM's. He's too busy reading the latest adventures of Batman and Avengers to give a shit about some underage internet drama queen. This board has been pretty great since her departure I have to say.

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Over the last 3 or 4 years I've found out about a dozen or so people dying via facebook. Its a shocking commentary on our modern society that now people don't have someone gently tell them a friend died but instead to read it on a computer screen. Sorry to hear about your loss.

11-12-2010 03:41 PM
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(11-12-2010 03:40 PM)Void Wrote:  This board has been pretty great since her departure I have to say.

Amen.

CAGE has been able to shine more lately and it's been a treat.

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I don't really care for it much. Friendships and relationships have been reduced to status updates and easy to break by clicking "delete this friend" or changing your status back to single without even so much as having to talk it out with who you're with. I call it a resume to society. You don't have to get to know anyone on a decent level anymore to know if you think they're some cool cats or flat out lame: all you have to do is check out their likes, religion/political affiliation (if you use that as a barometer of judging people), etc. to know enough about them.

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(11-12-2010 03:43 PM)CKY Wrote:  
(11-12-2010 03:40 PM)Void Wrote:  This board has been pretty great since her departure I have to say.

Amen.

CAGE has been able to shine more lately and it's been a treat.

Not to mention we may have an up and coming star like Chainsaw. He's been climbing the charts and is well on his way to breaking out barring any kind of setback.

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To be fair, if you are close to someone and they die, chances are you will get a phone call or something. Only people I don't give a shit about die on my Facebook.

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Found out another old friend ODed today via Facebook. I really hate 2010.

11-13-2010 05:48 PM
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I found out kidex was really straight through facebook, I always thought he was homo the way he'd come onto void

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you guys remember when talking about myspace was like, weird and gay and very lame to do?
but like...not facebook, cause it's....not....myspace? wat

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(11-13-2010 07:39 PM)ASP Wrote:  you guys remember when talking about myspace was like, weird and gay and very lame to do?
but like...not facebook, cause it's....not....myspace? wat

Agreed man, still lame as fuck. No one gives a fuck about how your (in general) friends are posting annoying updates, how you liked "pudding", how you're having a debate via wall, etc.

Also people playing Farmville ironically (LOL GET IT, ITS FUNNY BECAUSE I'M TAKING SUCH A CHILDISH THING SRSLY :]) need to fuck the fuck off and get up front with the ringmaster, with the ringading-dingalinga-ping-master to get their motherfuckin' wind pipes chopped off.

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(11-13-2010 07:44 PM)CKY Wrote:  
(11-13-2010 07:39 PM)ASP Wrote:  you guys remember when talking about myspace was like, weird and gay and very lame to do?
but like...not facebook, cause it's....not....myspace? wat

Agreed man, still lame as fuck. No one gives a fuck about how your (in general) friends are posting annoying updates, how you liked "pudding", how you're having a debate via wall, etc.

Also people playing Farmville ironically (LOL GET IT, ITS FUNNY BECAUSE I'M TAKING SUCH A CHILDISH THING SRSLY :]) need to fuck the fuck off and get up front with the ringmaster, with the ringading-dingalinga-ping-master to get their motherfuckin' wind pipes chopped off.

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well he doesnt hear any bad news via twitter because he only tweets to pro wrestlers and other celebs that will never respond back.

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(11-12-2010 03:47 PM)Void Wrote:  I don't really care for it much. Friendships and relationships have been reduced to status updates and easy to break by clicking "delete this friend" or changing your status back to single without even so much as having to talk it out with who you're with. I call it a resume to society. You don't have to get to know anyone on a decent level anymore to know if you think they're some cool cats or flat out lame: all you have to do is check out their likes, religion/political affiliation (if you use that as a barometer of judging people), etc. to know enough about them.

I honestly couldn't remember the last time I read about their political views, fav bands and what not. I don't really have anyone I don't know or haven't met on my facebook.

Do people just search random people and add them? I don't use my facebook like that.

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Never was much of a social networker myself.

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(11-12-2010 03:19 PM)Ivan Ooze Wrote:  lol @ me getting rejected

Um.....whats lol bout it? If it's not Corey Jo, im SURE it happens EVERYday. I've seen your posts, not ones about specifically being rejected, but ALL of them in general....and um yeah. Nothing "lol" at all.

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peanuts gonna peanut

one time i got a response back from victoria(whatever she goes by now)and some other chick i forget who it was now, but i dropped a peezygraph laced message that was fully x-rated and victoria responded back to me. was a good moment. dont remember what she responded with tho. moment now seems not that great, then. :/

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If I didnt have facebook I wouldnt talk to my family. Its the only way I can tolerate most people.

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